Before we start ......
If you want people to respond to you - write a description! It never ceases to amaze me the number of people who don't bother to write a description. The description is your big chance to talk about what you're looking for and what you're offering. You don't ask - you won't get.

6 Steps to a Winning Description

1. Keep it Casual
Use contractions, (I'm, don't, wouldn't).

2. Talk about sex
You'll get more replies from like minded people if you're upfront about what you like. For example: " I like toys and role playing but don't like pain or water sports". Feel free to say if you're new at this or if you're looking to try anything in particular.

3. Talk About Other Stuff.
Don't limit your description to sex and looks, include a little about what you like and dislike.
e.g. I'm a movie buff, a great cook, a fan of rap. I like hiking/ sushi/ photography. I collect shot glasses/ dolls/ dildos. I do yoga/ volunteer work/ karate. I enjoy museums/ rugby/ dancing. I can't stand opera/ team sports/ reality TV ..... you get the picture.

4. Include A Photo
It's a fact: people who post photos get lots more responses. The photo doesn't have to clearly identify you, and you may want to see what other people post before adding your picture.
For your own sake please don't post something misleading - you'll feel like an idiot if you go to meet someone and have to spend the first 15 minutes explaining that your photo was out-of-date/ digitally enhanced/ not-of-you.

5.Think Safety - think general
Most people are ok. Some people are dangerous. Use your brains and don't give out any identifying information in your description. You want to be able to pick and choose who you get in touch with.
Bad - I'm the only florist in Trimley-Saint-Mary. Good - I work as a florist in East Anglia.
Bad - I play squash at Brookhaven Court, Manchester every Wednesday. Good - I enjoy playing squash. Reminder - This goes for men and women.

6. Be Honest
You're going to be meeting these people.

A Model Desription.
Hi there, I'm a curvy, raven haired school teacher in the north of England looking for a man or couple to try bondage with, (think silk and feathers not leather and chains). I like hiking and spicy food and reading pretty much anything except true-crime. I'm allergic to cats and keep parakeets.

Looking for:
A man or couple between 30 and 55 in or around Leeds, willing to experiment ..... You are confident with a great sense of humour who likes bondage and dislikes reality TV. Appearance umimportant. Attitude vital.